【晚八点红包】彩礼嫁妆钱、亲戚给的茶水钱应该给父母还是自己留？（4.5）
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font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113); text-align: center;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); font-weight: 700; font-size: 12px;">（温馨提示：下载客户端参与每晚8点红包互动话题，你就有钱拿！）</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113);"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113); text-align: center;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px;">每晚</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); font-size: 26px;">8点</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px;">福利红包抢不停！</span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113);"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113); text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); font-weight: 700; font-size: 16px;">【今 日 话 题】</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">给不给彩礼陪嫁？给多少彩礼陪嫁？</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">彩礼陪嫁钱、亲戚给的茶钱最后给谁？用途？</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">一直都是困扰着许多人的问题</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">虽然现在大部分结婚出嫁</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">这些钱的最终去向</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">其实都是给了夫妻两个人的</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">但也不乏有些丈母娘或公婆</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">将这笔钱扣留 另做其他用途的</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><img src="http://img.96weixin.com/ueditor/20220405/1649149201229387.png" title="1649149201229387.png" alt="微信截图_20220405170054.png" style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; border: 0px none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; height: auto !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">所以今日晚八点红包话题来了！</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">你觉得彩礼、陪嫁钱</span></strong></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">以及亲戚给的礼金茶水钱应该如何支配</span></strong></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">给父母 还是自己留</span></strong></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px;">一起和大家讨论吧！</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113); text-align: center;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); font-weight: 700;">（提示：回复之后就能看到红包，点击下方“开”即可领取红包。大家还想聊聊什么话题，欢迎评论区投稿哟！）</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); 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