【早十点话题】来聊聊你的观点！三十岁以后真的很难再交到真心的朋友吗？（8.9）
<section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", -apple-system-font, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: center; width: 3.2em;"><img src="http://newcdn.96weixin.com/mmbiz.qlogo.cn/mmbiz_gif/Ljib4So7yuWjCxDqYSDjJr5GUuqf2AKfTjnia2jBdqG3SkCicHDHZib0B8HIJ2LbLwoeqRDDwZzibgkeyrbibFicZiafuA/0?wx_fmt=gif" data-width="100%" alt="" style="display: block; vertical-align: middle; border: 0px none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; z-index: -1; cursor: pointer; width: 54.3906px; height: auto !important;"></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", -apple-system-font, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", sans-serif; font-size: 17px; margin-top: -20px; margin-left: 5px; text-align: center;"><section style="max-width: 100%; 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height: auto !important;"></ignore_js_op></div><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113); letter-spacing: 2px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); font-weight: 700; font-size: 12px;">（温馨提示：下载客户端参与每晚8点红包互动话题，你就有钱拿！）</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113); letter-spacing: 2px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); font-weight: 700; font-size: 12px;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert;"></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113); letter-spacing: 2px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-weight: 700;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px;">每天</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); font-size: 26px;">10点</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px;">福利红包抢不停！</span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(113, 113, 113); letter-spacing: 2px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-weight: 700;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert;"></span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-size: 16px;">人际关系维系靠的是交换，无论是利益交换，还是情感交换，交换的多了，关系就牢固了。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">能不能交朋友取决于你愿不愿意付出代价去交换，年纪越大，时间越珍贵，也不愿意投入时间精力去维系一些关系。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">既然不愿意投入时间精力，可以试试靠利益交换。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">成年人交友，有很多是从合作伙伴开始的，经过利益交换的朋友，有时候关系反而更牢固。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">很多靠情感交换得来的朋友，最终总是毁在了利益纠纷上。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; font-family: "PingFang SC", Helvetica, Arial, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", STHeiTi, sans-serif; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border: 0px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(107, 104, 112); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";"></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700; letter-spacing: 2px;">【今 日 话 题】</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-size: 16px;"></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-size: 16px;">来聊聊你的观点</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-size: 16px;">三十岁以后</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-size: 16px;">真的很难再交到真心的朋友吗？</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"><img src="http://img.96weixin.com/ueditor/20220809/1660006997307383.png" title="1660006997307383.png" alt="image.png" style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; border: 0px none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert; height: auto !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; list-style: revert;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; max-width: 100%; list-style: revert; font-weight: 700; font-family: Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(121, 123, 170);"></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); 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至于其他朋友，比如同事，邻居，异地老乡，牌友，钓友，酒友，车友，客户，供应商......等等，都很难深交。
应该要以家庭为主，朋友也不需要多 喜欢安静独处 我觉得是的，三十岁大多数人基本上都结婚了，日子变得更现实。 什么叫真心朋友 看看别人怎么说 心思放在家人身上了 只要不提借钱，都是真朋友 我觉得也不是。年青人是同学关系 。。。。。。。。。 真的是